Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Who really knows what is going to happen?

It seems to me that all authorities are waiting to see what their counterparts are going to do first.  I am in a position where I am curious who isn't embarrassed about how the entire process is being executed and does anyone even answer these questions?
 
tK said she would come back to the US around Christmas, and here we are going on the end of January, and no other attempts or contacts have been made to provide any type of arrangement of coming back. Instead an appeal brief has been entered here in the US and the writ of Habeus Corpus in Costa Rica....

doesn't sound to open to negotiation to me? 

tK needs to understand I am not in charge of getting the felony dropped or even suspended in the US, but I know I would rather be in a US jail than a Costa Rica jail any day.  Once the Federal warrant is issued then who knows how aggressive things will become in terms of making an example of a kidnapper that runs, hides, then makes demands with disregard toward any judicial system, but only her own agenda. 

I want  my daughter to have a good life, and her mother is laying the groundwork that is creating part of our family legacy. 

We need to resolve this matter swiftly since she is so young and work diligently toward making the experience more like a confusing dream.   Emily has the opportunity to start the healing and changing process in front of her. My question is to her mother, is how long will you wait to begin the inevitable?

Monday, January 24, 2011

Do the right thing....

I just really want to reach out at this point and get our custody case, etc taken care of in the US, I feel like tK is just seeing how she can avoid having to ever come back based from a Facebook post that she would drag this out until Emily is 18 years old.  The best thing now is for her to come back to the US and face what she has to face here instead of getting caught up in the Courts/Prison system in Costa Rica as I'm sure she will not be favorably welcomed by the locals.  Please do the right thing... if you know her, convince her.  just look up travel cautions traveling to Costa Rica if you are Caucasian :  

Saturday, January 15, 2011

A lttle to share but can't say a word...

I am subjected to some type of laryngitis, or something.... where it really hurts bad to speak, so I am going to wait until fully rested and taking notes along the way.  There is nothing exciting or new, but I personally feel optimistic through the Grace of God & His Will...

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Living the unknown

Currently I am living the unknown.... before this time, I was living in the fight, but now have appeared to won the fight.  The only thing is as long as my daughter is on foreign soil, my rights are limited on how things are dealt with in the foreign land.  All I have today are my memories of my daughter, pictures of her I get occasionally through resources other than tK.  This entire ordeal has changed all of our lives forever. This impacts not only me and tK, but all the other children, any family members, friends, and potentially future relationships with other people in our lives.

There are times when my heart tells me to be soft and just become emotional over the situation, but God has plans for me and brings me to my feet every time, out of the muck and mire...

Right now during this phase of getting the laws to move forward and provide justice to an almost 2 year crime, I don't know what is happening in CR as their Judicial system resumes next week Monday January 17, 2011 and hopefully we'll see some real quick progress???  I just pray tK turns herself over to return to the US this following week as she had implied she could travel after Christmas.  The time has come to bring our family issues back to the US and shed the light on the entire truth.

I am grateful for all the help and supporters that have gone above and beyond what I could ever imagined. I just sit patiently waiting to hear back from the powers to be since there is nothing further I can do to help. Prayers and hope